Revel 201 – Unveiling the Power of Surrender – Drive

Realize your unique relationship with dominant and submissive dispositions.  Begin practicing a new way of relating to yourself and connecting authentically with others, unveiling previously invisible opportunities to receive and contribute powerfully in your relationships.

Section 1

We discover common misunderstandings about power struggles in relationships.

Then, we consider the possibility of creating power exchanges versus power struggles.

Am I aspiring, investing and manifesting my will in line with my purpose?  This is the consent model we exercise for restoring your original will and relationship to Drive.

Section 2

We discuss the four objective power expressions and how ours and others’ expressions occur more in subjective judgement than as a simple non value judgement occurrence.    

The 4 Objective Expressions of Power vs Subjective Expressions of Force

  • Dominant +  as an objective description of what is often referred to in subjective language as the Leader/Provider.
  • Submissive + as an objective description of what is often referred to in subjective language as the Helper/Pleaser.
  • Submissive – as an objective description of what is often referred to in subjective language as the Coward/Victim.
  • Dominant – as an objective description of what is often referred to in subjective language as the Bully/Violator.

Section 3

We investigate the specific objective power dynamic expression as it connects to each of the four spheres of influence.  

We investigate the frustrated version of our expressions when they feel forced and unnatural and derive from those frustrations what the more natural and original expression is, as a set of virtues, and learn how to hold and honor those unique expressions as our authentic influence.

Investigating the frustrations of our expressions of power allows us to discover what power dynamics we are wired to express most naturally and to reconcile behaviors and dispositions that we have been judging and incriminating ourselves for.

Section 4

We assemble the naturally powerful virtues that are the central and potent expressions of energetic disposition in your erotic economy that allow you to unapologetically, and responsibly, own the very core power and natural will as the origin of your love and your fury.

With that new guide, you can begin to assess what relationships are not yet fully connected or fully authentic and can make adjustments that are in line with your core erotic power expressions.