Revel 201 – Unveiling the Power of Surrender – Drive

Realize your unique relationship with dominant and submissive erotic dispositions.  Begin practicing a new way of relating to yourself and connecting authentically with others, unveiling previously invisible opportunities to receive and contribute powerfully in your relationships.

Section 1

First, we discover common misunderstandings about power struggles in relationships and begin to consider the possibility of creating power exchanges versus power struggles.

You can then ask yourself, am I aspiring, investing and manifesting my will in line with my purpose?  This is the consent model we exercise for restoring your original will and true relationship to Drive.

Section 2

We discuss the four objective power expressions and how ours and others’ expressions occur more in subjective judgment than as a simple objective observation.    

The 4 Objective Expressions of Power vs. Subjective Expressions of Force

  • Dominant +  as an objective description of what is often referred to in subjective language as the Leader/Provider.
  • Submissive + as an objective description of what is often referred to in subjective language as the Helper/Pleaser.
  • Submissive – as an objective description of what is often referred to in subjective language as the Coward/Victim.
  • Dominant – as an objective description of what is often referred to in subjective language as the Bully/Violator.

Understanding that one’s natural erotic expression is simply how they are wired to experience and to express being powerful is a very significant part of being able to relate to oneself authentically. When we stop judging whether we are good, bad, right or wrong, liked or disliked, loved or unloved because of the way we are erotically wired, we can begin to experience ourselves authentically. When we begin to experience ourselves authentically, we can begin to express ourselves authentically. Understanding and honoring your power expression is vital to authentic connection in relationships. Recognizing and valuing others’ power expressions without value judgment is vital to your ability to create authentic contribution in your relationships.

Section 3

We investigate each specific objective power dynamic expression as each informs the four spheres of influence.  

We investigate the frustrated version of our erotic power expressions when they feel forced and unnatural and derive from those frustrations what the more natural and original expression is, as a set of virtues, and learn how to hold and honor those unique expressions as a vital aspect of our authentic influence.

Investigating the frustrations of our expressions of power allows us to discover what power dynamics we are wired to express most naturally and to reconcile behaviors and dispositions that we have been judging and incriminating ourselves for.

Section 4

We assemble the naturally powerful virtues that are the central and potent expressions of energetic disposition in your erotic economy that allow you to unapologetically, and responsibly, own the very core power and natural will as the origin of your love and your fury.

With that new guide, you can begin to assess what relationships are not yet fully connected or fully authentic and can make adjustments that are in line with your core erotic power expressions.